Most new parents will feel some anxiety during the first few weeks of being a family, but if the anxiety becomes constant and affecting daily life, then your partner may need some extra support and help.
You can support you partner by
- Encouraging them to talk to a health professional
- Talking to each other, reassure them and suggest they write down any concerns so that they can share them with a health professional
- Help around the house
- Set limits with friends and family so visitors don’t become overwhelming
- Help with the laundry
- Where possible accompany her to doctor’s appointments
- Educate yourself around mental health in the postnatal period
- Just sit with each other, let them know you are there, with no distractions, no phone, TV etc
- Make sure you use eye contact when communicating with each other
- Encourage your partner to rest
- Ask what you can do to help
- Listen to your partner
- Be patient